We have been struggling with this topic for a while and I have decided that something needs to be done. Zachary and Nicolas are great eaters and they get a lot of food (both solid and liquid)
during the day. I cannot believe that they are
actually hungry when they wake at night. Usually the first time they wake up is within 4 hours
of them going to bed after having almost 8 ounces of formula! The boys are great sleepers during the day and I know they are capable of soothing themselves to sleep. So, I need to let them do that on their own. And the only way to do so, is to let them cry it out.
I have been avoiding letting them cry it out for many reasons. The main reason is that it is heart breaking! I cannot stand listening to them cry. But I have to realize that it's my problem and not theirs and I am not doing them a favor by not allowing them to
figure out how to fall back to sleep on their own.
The other big reason is that I am so worried that one baby will wake the other. This is a real problem with having twins sleeping in the same room. So, to get rid of this problem, we put up the pack-n-play in the basement. When someone wakes up and needs to cry it out, I get Steve to move him downstairs. I then sleep on the couch to make sure that I am close by and so that I can hear him. The advantage with that is Steve can actually get some sleep. He doesn't have to listen to the screaming baby. I also have the baby monitor so I can keep an ear open for the baby still sleeping in his crib.
Last night was night two of this new technique. The first night Nicolas cried off and on for almost 2 hours downstairs. Last night, he slept from 8:45 until 3:15 without waking. At 3:15 I fed him and he went back to sleep until 7:30. Zachary spent a good part of the night in the basement last night. He was in bed at 8:30 and when he woke at 1:00, I had Steve transfer him to the pack-n-play. He cried off and on until 2:00. But then he slept until 6:15. At that time he was fed and put back in his crib and he slept until 7:30 as well.
In chatting with Carolyn (my very knowledgeable sister-in-law) yesterday, she mad me realize that the boys may be waking for food as a sign that they are ready to start eating more complex foods. That is; meats, pasta, egg yolks, etc... The type of food that has proteins and
carbs that will keep them fuller, longer. She may very well be right. So today, we start with some meat and see what happens...
Wish us luck!